To suit up or suit down?

The “what to wear” first date woes. We all know that clothes (and general appearance) speaks volumes about who you are as a person.

But what kind of impression are you giving off on your first date by wearing a collared shirt & tie?

This question is often a dilemma for guys, and as well as for girls. Unfortunately I cannot write about what girls should be wearing for a first date, but I can write from personal experience, from a guy’s perspective.

An Introduction from the Average Single Guy

You walk in; chest is out… you are ready to roll. You have a bit of a bounce in your step as you walk through the door giving the random ticket-lady at the door a courtesy nod of the head as your right-wrist gets smacked with some barely visible ink stamp.

The Bachelor Years

TheFreeDictionary.com defines the word bachelorism as “dedication to the state of being a bachelor” or “behavior typical of a bachelor”. Usually when we hear the word bachelor, we usually think of a promiscuous single guy who desperately needs to get married,

Making a good First Impression

30 seconds. That’s typically how long it takes for her to form an impression about you. I recently wrote about getting suited up for a date – but even if you are dressed for the occasion, what can be done in the first 30 seconds of meeting that will impress her?

Choreography of SMS-based Relationships

“We all exist in a multi-coloured matrix of communication channels. This includes the entire range of social media, voice calls, emails, and the hugely popular Short Messaging Service (SMS). Whether we like it or not, we’re all involved in a dance…

A guy's worst enemy

Too many guys fall victim to their innermost demons in the developing stages of being “officially” in a relationship. How can you combat these negative emotions and turn them into something positive and constructive for the relationship?

How to buy her the perfect gift

So, your partner’s birthday is rapidly approaching, and you can no more think of a suitable present than you can account for Justin Bieber’s continuing success. It’s safe to say that every man who has ever been in a relationship has experienced this,

Making her your own

What’s classified as being “officially in a relationship”? How does it start? Does the guy have to ask the girl what’s happening between them? Does the girl let the guy know she’s ready for a relationship? How much emphasis should be put on this type of thing?

Lost in translation: Why men are always wrong

Have you ever wondered why a seemingly innocent statement can turn your better half from a bundle of loveliness into a fire-breathing dragon? One moment you’re all over each other like a rash, the next she’s throwing plates.

Ace-ing the first date